What Controls You?

(Psy Blog) How Other People’s Unspoken Expectations Control Us

We quickly sense how others view us and play up to these expectations.

A good exercise for learning about yourself is to think about how other people might view you in different ways. Consider how your family, your work colleagues or your partner think of you. Now here’s an interesting question: to what extent do you play up to these expectations about how they view you?

This idea that other people’s expectations about us directly affect how we behave was examined in a classic social psychology study carried out by Dr Mark Snyder from the University of Minnesota and colleagues (Snyder et al., 1977). They had a hunch that people automatically sense how others view them and immediately start exhibiting the expected behaviours.

(See the original post here)

Also see Does the Way You Sleep Mean Anything?, Psychotherapy Myths Busted and Are You Really Who You Think You Are?

Be first to comment